Wednesday, December 3, 2008

Decisions (slightly arbit)

It odd how decision the we were once convinced to be the best once we ever made, later seem to be the biggest mistakes of our lives!!

Why do we dilute the emotion and thought we put in to our decisions with the repercussions of the decisions?? And why do we question our very core of belief systems on the basis of how somebody else's decisions and their acts turned out to be?

We take the awesome feeling that love and only love can give and turn it in to a guilt trap and a culmination of all the wrong decisions we make. Everybody makes mistakes, and we accept it when its someone else, we comfort and we cheer. But why is it that when we make those very mistakes, the intensity not in consideration here, do we keep on obsessing and questioning and whining about it?

I believe that if something doesn't work out the way we want it to, it wasn't the right thing for us anyways. Is it an overwhelming superiority complex that leads to it, or is it that I have chosen to learn from others mistakes, and mine, and moved forward a stronger person, a better person.
They say that, the purest form of gold is acquired after it goes through the highest temperatures of a furnace. But isn't the purest form of gold really weak? Then why is it that we don't settle for the slightly impure, but stronger?

Too many questions, a very short life. Why, then, do we question more than we live?



Its so true. Im sure you got the idea of writing this from our discussion we had.

I completely agree to whatever you have written.

Too many questions, and a very short life. Questions will never get over ya.

But true we have learnt from our mistakes and become a much better and a stronger person.


it has been something on my mind 4 quite a while.. our discussion kinda cleared the lil fog over it...

Very Nice.. I liked the argument about gold!
Purity of gold is compared to purity of the human heart..but its true.. we might be becoming weaker.. more prone to emotions..more prone to getting hurt..

To accept our own mistakes one needs to be really strong.

Secondly it is subjective that one should be slightly impure and strong.

Does it mean that pure is weak...!!!

I feel that only strong can bear the heat of furnace to transform itself.

well you said it right,

"Too many questions, a very short life. Why, then, do we question more than we live?"

as I always say,

"Why to bother about rules, when you know how to break them....."